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<!--#echo var="SITENAME"-->: Disaster guide-- helping kids cope, ages 5 to 11
Family plan: Age 5 to 11

Ages 1-5 | Helping Kids Cope | Ages 11-14

Regressive reactions:

  • Disasters affect kids differently at different ages
  • Increased competition with younger siblings for parent's attention
  • Excessive clinging
  • Crying or whimpering
  • Wanting to be fed or dressed
  • Engaging in habits they had previously given up
Psychological reactions:
  • Headaches
  • Complaints of visual or hearing problems
  • Persistent itching and scratching
  • Nausea
  • Sleep disturbance, nightmares, night terrors
Emotional/behavioral:
  • School phobia
  • Withdrawal from play group and friends
  • Withdrawal from family contacts
  • Irritability
  • Disobedience
  • Fear of wind, rain, etc.
  • Inability to concentrate, and a drop in level of school achievement
  • Aggressive behavior (i.e. fighting with friends and siblings
  • Repetitive talking about their disaster experiences
  • Sadness over losses
Treat 'em right:
  • Give additional attention and physical comfort.
  • Gentle but firm insistence on more responsibility than any younger sibling gives positive reinforcement of child's age-appropriate behavior.
  • Temporarily relax requirements for performance in school and home duties.
  • Reassure them that competency will return.
  • Offer opportunity for structured, but not demanding chores and responsibilities.
  • Encourage physical activity.
  • Encourage verbal and written expression of thoughts and feelings about the disaster.
  • Provide play sessions with adults and peers.
  • Rehearse safety meaures to be taken in future disasters.
  • Encourage child to verbalize feelings of loss, to "grieve" for lost pets or toys.
Next: Age 11 to 14

What to do when nothing else seems to help

Source: Governor's Office of Emergency Services

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